Valentine's Day this year was a good example. This is not a holiday high on my list of holidays worth celebrating. In fact, I don't think it's on the list at all. But, the kids - and Kailey especially -- were so excited about Valentine's Day. In past years, I've remembered (at the last minute) to rush to the store and buy the obligatory pack of cards to hand out at school. That, followed by realizing I have no idea who is in the class, how to spell names correctly, or how many cards we really need. There are ways around these oversights -- cards do not have to be individually addressed (everyone is getting the same card anyway) and buying an extra pack of cards guarantees that we won't be short. My point is, I haven't spent a lot of time on Valentine's Day.
This year, Kai knew it was coming up. And, being the crafty person she is, started making cards weeks before the holiday arrived. She had a plan for what she wanted to do for each of her classmates, and no interest in buying pre-made cards at the store. She told me she needed red construction paper, stickers, and little boxes of candy hearts. She fretted when, two weeks out, I still hadn't bought her supplies. She wanted to get going!
She made a card for each person in her class, her teacher, and her cats. She made Alden, Eric and me multiple cards. My favorite had a picture of two pieces of dancing bacon and it said, "I love you more than bacon, and I really love bacon!" I'm pretty sure she cribbed it from somewhere, but it was cute.
Kai spent HOURS making cards, turning what I consider to be a commercialized and somewhat ridiculous holiday into her own expression of friendship and love for the people she spends her days with.
Alden, of course, is too young to really understand or anticipate the holiday. But, when he got his pack of cards at school, he was very excited. He spent the next several days dumping all the cards on the floor and picking them up, one by one, exclaiming, "I LOVE this one!" Then he would dance around in excitement among the cards.
Other than buying them each a card and a chocolate covered marshmallow made to look like a farm animal, we didn't do anything out of the ordinary for Valentine's Day. And, they didn't seem to notice or care. This was Kai's opportunity to express herself -- she relished the chance to make something for each of her classmates. She had a great time celebrating the holiday because she loves to create and she wants her friends to know she cares. And, in that way, she made the holiday what it should be -- a day of saying, "I care about you".
When I told her I wasn't a big fan of Valentine's Day, she turned to me and said, "How can you not like a holiday that is about love?" I hadn't really ever considered Valentine's Day to really be about love . But, that's what it meant for her. And, that's what she expressed leading up to the day and on the holiday itself.
I love how they live in the moment and draw out the essence of each day. I love being a mom to these two!
Here is a sampling of the cards Kai made: