A story from daycare. Jacob, one of Kai's care providers, told us he sometimes calls Aidan (and some of the other boys) "chief." The last time he said it to Aidan, as in "hey, chief", Aidan replied, "I'm not a chief. Chiefs are bossy, and I'm not bossy."
Then Aidan paused for a moment and continued, "Kailey is bossy. She's the chief."